Often the biggest barrier to creating an effective estate plan is knowing where to begin. The terms can be confusing, but the meanings are straightforward. My approach is to be transparent and approachable when it comes to helping you make the right decisions for your family.
A will is a document giving instructions on who you want to manage your estate and who you want to inherit your property and assets. In your will, you also can appoint a guardian for your minor children and a custodian for pets. A will becomes effective at death and is not enforceable during your lifetime.
A revocable trust can be changed or revoked during your lifetime. It is a contract/agreement and is a way to manage your assets. Generally, you are the Trustee of your trust during your lifetime. After your lifetime, the trust becomes irrevocable (unable to be changed). Your specified loved ones (beneficiaries) will receive assets from your trust in the way you specify. You can structure when your beneficiaries can receive money, what percentages you would like them to receive at certain ages, and for what purposes distributions can be made from the trust assets, for instance, health and education.
The person you appoint in your living will or health care power of attorney to carry out your wishes regarding your medical care.
Per Stirpes designation means that if a primary beneficiary dies before the person making the will, the deceased beneficiary’s share is passed down to deceased beneficiary’s children or other direct descendants. “Per stirpes” is a Latin term meaning “by branch” or “by family line,” ensuring that the intended portion of the inheritance stays within that specific family branch, rather than being divided among the remaining living beneficiaries.
Typically, property that you own jointly with another person (i.e., a home with both people listed on the deed in joint right of survivorship), will automatically pass to the joint owner at the end of your lifetime. However, property that is only owned by you (i.e., cars, bank accounts, real estate, etc.,) will pass intestate.
Currently in 2025, the federal tax exemption amount is $13.99 million per individual or $27.98 million for a married couple. If the gross estate (an accounting of everything owed) is more than this amount, a federal tax return will need to be filed within nine months of a person’s death. The current tax rate for estates larger than the federal exemption amount ranges in 2025 from 18% to 40%.
Whether inheritance taxes are owed depends upon the relationship the beneficiary has with the deceased. Generally, the closer the relationship with the deceased, the greater the exemption. For example, Kentucky allows an exemption (meaning no inheritance taxes owed) for Class A beneficiaries. This includes, spouses, children, stepchildren, grandchildren, parents, brothers and sisters, and half brothers and sisters.